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They’ve been told the lie that a “woman of God” lets the man initiate, pursue and make things happen.

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I think this is a really legitimate concern, and one in which I hope and pray the Church will listen and begin to fill the needs of this generation.

I asked singles to tell me why Christian singles aren’t dating. The comments rolled in, and some fantastic conversation came of it.

There’s a false standard that we’ve perpetuated and let’s just put this out there: No one is measuring up.

Men are looking for a cross between Mother Teresa and America’s Next Top Model, while women are after the Jesus-loving-Brad-Pitt.

As I read through and interacted with the comments, five big-picture themes emerged as to why #The Dating Scene is on snooze for most single Christians: One of the most common things that many singles reported experiencing from the opposite sex is the unrealistic standard of what they’re looking for in a relationship.I believe it’s important to have our standards of character, integrity and morals when it comes to a dating relationship—but could it be that in the name of “not settling” we’ve confused our preferences for our needs?Maybe it’s time to prioritize our needs from our wants, and consider pursuing someone that might typically be considered “outside of our usual type.” There’s definitely a fear culture surrounding the topic of asking someone out on a date. It’s almost as though we’re so afraid to fail that we’d rather not even try.Too many churches are not offering a way for their singles to meet—leaving them to fend for themselves with things like social media, online dating and everything in between in an attempt to meet.We offer groups for every other category of life, but when it comes to singles—if you’re past college, there’s a good chance you’re out of luck when it comes to finding a group to connect with at your local church.I think it’s time to exchange our fear for faith, and take the necessary steps to get healthy and then seek out a healthy relationship.

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